Danny Does continue to have an impact on this world long past his last breath. The Danny Did Foundation has received scores of emails and letters from people around the world who have been affected by Danny’s story. Below are a few examples. Correspondence has been edited for length, clarity, and privacy of the sender.

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From Rachel, South Carolina

I wanted to send you a little update on how my son has been doing with his Emfit monitor that you sent us from Danny Did! It’s been so great! It really has changed our world in just over the past month! The first night that we got it and we told our son he would be able to sleep in his own bed again, the relief and happiness on his face was priceless! It has been working for us…there have been a few nights now that the monitor has alerted us to Caleb seizing. At first, I was so nervous and so anxious of it maybe not working or something. It really was like when he was a newborn and the first night of putting him in his own room all over again. I have to admit, I didn’t get much sleep the first week but after the first time that it showed me it does work and we can rely on it to alert us…we’ve all been sleeping a lot better. He has been much happier and my husband and I are happy to have our room back to ourselves again! It’s a big comfort to know he can feel like a normal kid again but still be safe. So thank you again, from the bottom of our hearts! We really do appreciate this so very much! Danny is always in our hearts! I’ll always think of Danny as my little boy’s guardian angel!

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From Michelle of PurpleDay.org

I recently was helping a mum whose daughter was just diagnosed with epilepsy. She went from having no seizures to 60+ a day. Her mum was unable to sleep – too afraid of what could happen to her daughter–and as president of a company she did not know what to do. I immediately thought of the Emfit alarm I first saw on your website. I sent her the link and she purchased one right away. So far, so good! I truly thank you and everyone at the Danny Did Foundation for all your hard work and advocacy. Without you, I know many people would not be able to sleep at night.

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From Melissa, California

Just wanted to say thanks for your hard work. Found your ad on Facebook. My 3yr old daughter was diagnosed with Myoclonic Seizures March 18th, 2009, and her seizures are still uncontrolled. Her new doctors at UCLA think she was misdiagnosed. Your website is very interesting for me as my daughter never sleeps through the night. We are scheduled for our 1st multi day video EEG on July 8th. They have told us she will be attached to the EEG and video taped for a minimum of 24hrs (sleeping & active), and a maximum of four days. I’m very nervous but hopeful to have answers. With her not sleeping through the night, neither she nor I have slept in three years (ok 2 x’s she slept through the night, but mommy didn’t). Again thank you ALL for your work, help, and awareness!

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From Gigi and Mike, Illinois

Thank you for your website, we have found your information regarding epilepsy and SUDEP quite helpful.  We have a 10 year old daughter who was diagnosed with Rolandic Benign Seizure disorder 2 years ago (Seizures that occur as she is falling asleep). We have visited your website several times, it was the first one we went to after her last seizure.

We have taken some of your suggestions and incorporated them into monitoring her sleep.  We have learned quite a bit from your website that we didn’t hear (or maybe don’t remember hearing) from the “Experts.”

You could have let someone else step up to the plate when it came to educating the world regarding epilepsy.  Thank you for educating us.

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From Meghann, North Carolina

What an amazing foundation you have built in memory of your beautiful son. Our son, who just turned four on Monday, had his first seizure on the 2nd of this month. It lasted two and a half hours and we spent two days in the PICU with him. Reading Danny’s story hit close to home. Our son has been in our bed since and I don’t see him leaving anytime soon, even with a baby due in but 2.5 weeks. I am so glad we found your organization. It reassures me that we are not going through this alone.

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From Rachel, South Carolina

I have a 3 year son who has severe epilepsy! Many of his seizures happen at night time. We didn’t even become aware of this until after I read Danny’s story. Even with a child with Epilepsy, he was just very recently diagnosed and everything is still very new to me. But Danny was the one that educated me on the risk of SUDEP. The same week I read about Danny and his touching story, my son had a major seizure while in his room as he was asleep. I found him pale faced and with his lips completely blue. Thankfully, I got to him in time to turn him on his side so he could recover and everything turned out okay. So Danny’s story really hit me deeply. The next night, we brought our son into our bedroom with us to watch him ourselves. We then discovered he was having many more seizures than we originally thought. He wasn’t just having seizures in the day time but at night while he was in his bed, asleep, and alone! That thought not only scared me but broke my heart to think he was going through that by himself and we never even knew of it occurring! Since then, he has moved into our room.

Thank you for all that you do for families. Danny has stayed in our prayers and has become a big piece of our hearts. So thank you again for sharing him with us because without Danny’s story…it may have taken us longer to find out about our son’s seizure activity at night and about the risk of SUDEP!

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From Julie, Illinois

We just submitted a letter of medical necessity (for an Emfit Movement Monitor) from our neurologist to Blue Cross Blue Shield of IL. A representative said she would put a rush on the approval so we hope to hear within a few days rather than a few weeks. I will let you know what we hear back from the insurance company. We did contact Emfit USA regarding some needed codes for the insurance company … response from them was super fast!

Our son had surgery last week for his second set of ear tubes and adenoids removed. Such a common procedure for many kids … for our son it meant one less reason to have a nocturnal seizure. An ear infection is what we believe caused his two most recent nocturnal seizures.

We know that this is not the only cause of his seizures, so we keep on pushing. Your journal entries are a source of inspiration for our family. We keep the article from Chicago Parent’s Magazine in our son’s medical binder. Every time I make a call to a doctor or write a medical note, I see Danny’s story. It reminds me to go that extra step. We appreciate your family’s efforts. We hope we can be a part of it to give back a little of what Danny has given to us. The accomplishments the DDF has made so far are amazing! You are making a huge difference …

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From Kathy, Queensland, Australia

This is an incredible story. I lost my son December 23, 2005. He was on working holiday in Canada from Australia. We had to fly to Canada to turn the life machine off, then bring him home. It was the worst day of our life. He was 32 and was so lucky to enjoy life and travel the world, where such a young child like Danny must of been so hard as he was just enjoying life. My heart goes out to the family. We also did not know much about epilepsy until it was too late, so to have people like this who lose a family member and then to want to help prevent this from happening to others is so great. Keep up the great work, as I know, like my son, little Danny would be so proud of his mum and dad. God bless you all.

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From Kristen, Colorado

WOW…I just found this site through our local Epilepsy Foundation page and it is overwhelming. As a mom of a 9 year old who has had seizures since he was 3 months I am shocked and angered at the neurologists who have kept this information from us. I specifically remember our first neurologist telling us that “a seizure won’t kill him…” God bless you and your family in your quest to make SUDEP known to the community. I pray that your work will bring you peace in the months and years ahead. Thank you!

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From Julie, Illinois

I heard about Danny a few months ago but only learned more about you and the the Danny Did Foundation this week. I have two little boys with seizure disorders so your story is very close to my heart. I went to Dannydid.org and learned about Danny and his parents’ tremendous efforts to educate others of the risks of seizures and preventable measures. It is true most doctors don’t talk to parents about the risk of death or how we can monitor our children to prevent death.

Last Thursday night, we put the boys to bed as normal.  About 1:30am I heard my son whimper softly.  I was hoping he would fall back asleep. I was tired and didn’t want to get out of bed but Danny’s smiling face convinced me to go check on him.  Long story short, a few minutes later he was having a grand mal seizure.  We were able to administer emergency medication prior to the ambulance arriving.  He was taken to Children’s Memorial hospital and released a few hours later.

Needless to say, we are taking a much more proactive approach to managing our children’s seizures.  We are asking our doctors the tough questions and will continue to push them. Keep spreading the word … it does matter!

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From Becky, Vermont

My 93 year-old dad read about Danny in the Portland (Maine) Press Herald. It moved him so much that he passed the article on to me. Danny’s story moved me too—so much so that after reading the story, I folded it up and put it in my purse. I just couldn’t put it in the recycle bin!

I was just searching in my purse for a phone number and saw the folded newsprint. I took the story out and re-read it and suddenly the frustrations of the day vanished. I’ll bet I’m not the only one out there who never met Danny or your family, but has been changed by his story. I just wanted you to know that Danny’s spirit lives on! God bless you.

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From Ellen, South Carolina

It’s difficult to know where to begin an email like this, but I know without a doubt that it is one I must send.

I won’t take up all of your time with our story.  Simply put, after our second son was diagnosed at 3 months old with a brain malformation and accompanying seizure disorder we began our journey down a road that was completely unexpected.  Along this journey we have realized how little is truly known about Epilepsy, how little is said about Epilepsy, how neurologists in all of their valuable knowledge rarely are able to address the human aspect of the disease and how at the end of the day our goals are all the same – to minimize and hopefully eliminate the suffering this brings to our little ones and everyone else involved.

Our son has been basically sleeping with us or in the room with us since he was born, which was April of 2009.  In the beginning it was the newborn feeding schedule, however after the diagnosis our world simply changed. At just over 10 months old, it is time for him to sleep in his own room and for our family to keep heading towards some form of normal – but how in the world would I ever make that happen.  I was sent to the Emfit website by a friend and spoke with Christine there this morning.  We talked about the Movement Monitor and she also mentioned your foundation…life then took an interesting turn.

As I read through your foundation’s website, joined as a fan on your facebook page and let the reality of your story sink in I was overwhelmed, excited, heartbroken for you all and blessed to know what an inspiration your sweet son has been and will continue to be to so many people.

After battling multiple medications, with little success, I had such a strong feeling of wanting to create some sort of foundation to honor our son, our family’s journey, everyone who battles this horrible disease, but also to help raise awareness and one day contribute to finding a cure.  I had in my heart and my soul what that looked like, felt like – but I had not yet translated it to any tangible form. And then I was sent to the Danny Did Foundation website…and there it was.  You have captured a love and compassion, a mission and a purpose and a sheer determination to make a difference in the lives of everyone who suffers the effects of Epilepsy.  I feel blessed to have found your site as a valuable resource and also as a place to hopefully channel our family’s strong need to make some sort of difference.

Thank you for sharing your family and precious Danny’s life with us.  Please know that I realize how crazy this email may sound, since we don’t know each other at all, but I hope it will convey the simple feelings that I had after learning of your story.

May God bless you and your family.

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From Michelle, Illinois

I am so sorry for your loss. I am a pediatric RN we are patients at Children’s Memorial Hospital. I’ve asked our doctor if there is any device for home use that alerts to seizure activity. She said there is not and that I should use a baby monitor, but as you know they really are not very loud during a seizure.

I have searched for a device and could only find things similar to apnea monitors for alarming when there isn’t enough activity. We need something for increased activity. I have a 17 month old daughter who also sleeps with me. She has never had a seizure before but instead of getting up to check on her a million times a night out of fear I feel better with her next to me. My son started seizing at 11 months after having a low grade temp and seized for over 12 minutes. He has had one that was 30 minutes as well. We have Diastat handy in every room. Thank God for that medicine at least. He then began having seizures this summer with no fever or any reason. He has had one abnormal EEG but numerous normal and two normal MRIs as well. He is on Topamax currently and the dose has doubled since he had another seizure on it in October. He is otherwise just like Danny, a perfect preschooler, happy, and energetic. Most people are in shock that he has seizures and almost don’t believe me since he looks just fine on the outside.

Thank you for your fight to find something to help children like ours. If there is anything I can do to help please let me know. I fully support your cause! Thank you and God bless you and your family.

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From Jennifer, Illinois

I have tried to write you several times and I just can’t think of the words to say. I guess I will give it a shot.

First of all, I stumbled across your website Sunday morning by Googling ”monitors for children with night seizures”. I was instantly overwhelmed with emotions of every kind. We too have a son who has seizures when he sleeps. Only a parent in our situation can understand the fear every night when we put our child to sleep. I can only imagine what you have gone through with your loss of Danny. I commend you for what you are doing. I’m not sure I would have the strength.

Our sin was born at 36 weeks and weighed just over 5lbs. He seemed perfectly healthy other than his lungs: they were underdeveloped. He was in the NICU for 10 days. He is so special to us. Having all girls, a son was a welcomed change.

Our son had his first two seizures within 12 hours in August 2008 We didn’t realize his first episode was even a seizure until he had his second which was much worse. We had no idea what was happening to our son. Our neighbor, who is a nurse told us that was what it looked like to her. It was not what we thought was a “typical seizure”. It lasted for about 20 minutes and it seemed like an eternity for the ambulance to get to our house. The paramedics asked if he was poisoned or if he was diabetic. (Our daughter is so we tested his blood sugar, it was fine). Our son finally stared vomiting and became very agitated which was not like him at all. He was out of control by the time we got to the ER. They decided to keep him overnight because his seizure lasted so long as did his postdictal period. He had a CT scan and a sleep deprived EEG and later an MRI. He was sent home and we were told to make an appointment with a pediatric neurologist.

Within a week we were at the hospital. After a brief examination and an unsuccessful attempt at reading the cd that was sent of his EEG, the doctor simply said, “your son has epilepsy” and gave me a folder with some pamphlets and outdated calenders with the name Keppra on it. He said he will be on Keppra for two years and we will see you back in 3 months.

We gave him the medicine and took him back two times. It seemed like such a joke and the doctor laughed when I asked questions. It was like a seizure disorder was a cold to him.

We had switched insurance carriers and were able to go to a new hospital. I called and made an appointment there as soon as possible. Again, I don’t know if it is just me but the dcotor was just so matter of fact and not very interested in answering questions. I left feeling very frustrated.

Until I read Danny’s story I didn’t realize I was in denial. It never dawned on me that we could possibly lose Jonah. I know now I need to follow through until I feel comfortable with his care. What you are
doing is working!!!

Thank you and God Bless you and your family.

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From Donna, Illinois

I received a frantic phone call from my mother, “I think something is wrong with Jake!” she yelled. My mother described pulling into the McDonald’s parking lot and looking back to see Jake’s excitement — and then seeing his head down, eyes open, mouth open, and hand twitching. She panicked and yelled his name. The episode lasted at least 30 seconds. A few minutes later, it happened again. She then started toward my house. I was already in route home from work and on the phone with the doctor. Jake was to come in right away, the doctor said. I called my husband to give him the news. I hoped that my mom was somehow wrong…then I saw it happen myself.

I am a special education teacher and have seen grand mal seizures —but when it is your child— there is no preparation for that. This one looked as though he was trying to fall asleep, until I saw his eyes open and his hand twitching. What surprised me was that he did not seem tired or scared when he came out of it 30 seconds later.

The doctor made a similar comment — but he saw our fear. He said if it had been just one seizure, we would have been advised only to watch, but since it was three seizures in less than an hour, he wanted Jake hospitalized and tested. The whole thing was awful! Jake had an IV, a Seizure Study (as demanded by our nurse!), and an EEG. None of these showed any seizure activity at the time — but they were brief tests. I am so grateful that nothing was found…but also scared. Jake has been seizure free for 14 months, as far as I know. The three that we know of were hard to spot — I really wonder how many he had before and has had since. I warn everyone who takes care of him about these.

Now, reading other information, I don’t understand if he had an absence seizure or another type of seizure because of the twitching hand? I also wake up several times a night to check on him. I worry that maybe he was falling asleep when he had these and that there is a sleep connection. So many questions! You would think that someone would have some answers to make our lives easier. Jake is a horrible sleeper and I really wonder if the seizures are the reason?

The Danny Did Foundation makes a difference in the lives of so many people. Thank you for your group and the opportunity to share — and to get to know your son through your eyes!

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From Michelle, Maryland

I just sat to read my emails. I saw Danny’s story, clicked past it, read my emails and got up and started working again. Something told me to go back and read it and I am so glad that I did . . . I was meant to. First, my profound sympathy to your entire family. I have come to realize in my 45 short years, that none of us really knows what we have in store for our lives. We plan, we teach, we provide, we protect, we love, but for some things, we just don’t get to decide.

We don’t have to like it, we just learn to find a way to accept it. I have done the eulogies at five funerals including my best friend’s daughter who dropped dead from a heart issue at 19 and my mother who died at 69 after a three-week battle with cancer. At each of their funerals, I included a quote from Abraham Lincoln that was fitting for them and especially fitting for Danny: “In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count, it is the life in your years.”

Danny did. Danny truly lived his life . . . all four years, and he will continue to live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him . . . and even in the hearts of those he never met. Ours prayers are with you.

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From Morgan, Illinois

I have a daughter who has been having seizures since one year of age. She was diagnosed with pediatric epilepsy when she was two yrs old, and although it has been a difficult road for all of our family, we are quite lucky that she has responded well to Depakote, which she has been on for almost six years. Finding the right medicine for young children was always so difficult — liquid Trileptal when she was an infant and then sprinkles that we would put on yogurt left her with stomach pain that would double her over without notice. We switched to Topomax to try and eliminate the pain, and after two doses she hallucinated for four days. Her name is Honor and she still remembers taking “bad medicine” Honor is turning 10 in a week. She has never had a seizure while on her meds.

I talked to her neurologist after learning about Danny and I was very surprised to learn about SUDEP (Sudden Unexplained Death in Epilepsy). We have been living with epilepsy for so many years, but didn’t know about this tragic possibility. Without the Danny Did Foundation we still wouldn’t know. That is what Danny Did for our family.